Content Warning: This article contains discussions of depression.
Mallika Sherawat recently opened up about her challenging upbringing, shedding light on the struggles her mother faced with depression following her birth. She bravely shared that her arrival brought sadness to her family, stating, “When I was born, mere pariwaar mein maatam chhaa gaya tha,” exposing the deep-seated biases within her household. She recounted how daughters were viewed as burdens, questioning, “Ladkiyon ka kya hai? They will get married; they are a liability, ek bojh hai.”
In a candid conversation with Hauterrfly, Mallika Sherawat delved into the disappointment that surrounded her birth, shining a spotlight on the prevalent patriarchy within her family. She recalled the mourning that followed her arrival, acknowledging the toll it took on her mother, likely leading her into a state of depression.
“When I was born mere pariwaar mein maatam chhaa gaya tha (there was mourning in my family). My mother, I am sure, went into depression, poor thing,” she expressed, shedding light on the societal favoritism towards sons over daughters that she faced from the very beginning.
Reflecting on her journey without familial support, Mallika highlighted the absence of advocacy from her parents. She bravely discussed the patriarchal values that constrained her choices and freedom, emphasizing how women themselves perpetuate these norms. She pointed out the significance of women supporting each other in dismantling these barriers, rather than reinforcing restrictive societal rules.
Recalling her childhood, the actress vividly remembered the blatant favoritism her parents displayed towards her brother, leaving her feeling deeply disheartened. She shared how her parents prioritized her brother’s education and future, viewing daughters as liabilities destined for marriage, thus deeming them unworthy of investments. This entrenched patriarchal mindset heavily influenced her formative years.
Mallika Sherawat acknowledged that her struggles were not isolated incidents. She recognized the widespread discrimination faced by many girls in her village, fueling her determination to defy societal expectations and advocate for change.
Despite receiving a solid education from her parents, Mallika felt stifled in her pursuits, particularly her passion for sports. She revealed how she had to engage in athletic activities in secret, as her family feared it would compromise her femininity and marital prospects. These restrictions stifled her authentic self-expression.
After her standout performance in Rajat Kapoor’s RK/RKay in 2022, Mallika Sherawat is gearing up for her comeback in Vicky Vidya Ka Woh Wala Video, alongside Rajkummar Rao and Triptii Dimri. The film hits theaters today, October 11, marking a new chapter in her career.
If you or someone you know is struggling with mental health issues, please seek help from a doctor, mental health professional, or NGO. Remember, you are not alone, and there are resources available to support you during difficult times.
